Child rearing is not child's play. Keeping in mind how many aspects parents bring up their children, it cannot be ended in quality. Especially if there are multiple children, the relationship between them becomes a headache at one time. Many times the elder child behaves violently towards the younger one. Sometimes the little one thinks that he alone has all the love of his parents. Parents have no end of worries about how to create a good relationship between their children.
Psychologists say that instead of unnecessarily scolding the child, parents should introduce some behavior into their daily habits, which will help to change the situation as a whole.
• Do not compare one child with another. Every child has unique characteristics. Instead of inculcating the idea that he has to be like a great grandpa, encourage him to do good by his own words. Similarly, don't compare the older with the younger. In this, stubbornness or inferiority – either of these two will sit in the child's mind.
• No matter how busy the day is, make time for each child separately. In this they will understand that they have a different importance to their parents. If he wants to share something personal, he will get that opportunity too.
• Don't immediately choose a side in a sibling fight. Listen to both to understand who is right and who is wrong. Teach them to solve their own problems. However, even if there is a serious problem, do not take sides, it is not like that.
• Do not insult others in front of one another. Mistakes may require scolding or discipline, but belittling others for no reason in front of one can create resentment between them.
• Encourage each other to help each other. Teach siblings to stand by each other in small tasks. It creates a sense of cooperation and responsibility.

• Play sports, tell stories, help cook, watch movies, or go on family outings—try to include children in experiences together that bring back fond childhood memories. Experiences where the brother/sister is also with them.
A close sibling relationship cannot be forced. If parents practice love at home, giving equal importance to each child, then the relationship between children becomes stronger.
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